SHELLY
SoWal Insider
...actually buying a bf a power tool is like buying a gf a pair of shoes--both will go back to the store for correction.
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Need Man Advice....men pls chime in.
- Thread starter seagrovegirl
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...actually buying a bf a power tool is like buying a gf a pair of shoes--both will go back to the store for correction.
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cheesehead
Beach Lover
It's always the thought that counts.
seagrovegirl
Beach Fanatic
and thoughts don't cost $$$.........
SHELLY
SoWal Insider
...mo' betta, if one wants to drop a very little or a very lot of coin for a gift, use it to buy "experiences" and not "things"...a picnic or a weekend retreat; a sailboat ride or a Caribbean cruise; a home-cooked meal or cooking lessons in New York City. Select the type of experience based on what you can easily afford at the moment--one should not go into months (or years!) of debt buying a gift (or experience) for a boy/girlfriend...that's the epitome of stupidity!
seagrovegirl
Beach Fanatic
He is spoiling me, but I don't want to keep up with the Jones's if you know what I mean. I have told him his gifts are not necessary, but they keep coming. I am not used to that, but I like it!!! He said his job is to spoil me. Do I give back accordingly, or keep doing what I am doing?
cheesehead
Beach Lover
So, this is not the "I got stood up" guy?
scooterbug44
SoWal Expert
No, this is the great guy she found after the disasters w/ the standupper and Chum or whatever his name was.
I vote you let him spoil you a little ............... but still protest and spoil him just a little too. ;-)
I vote you let him spoil you a little ............... but still protest and spoil him just a little too. ;-)
RiverOtter
got any pics?
RiverOtter
got any pics?
SHELLY
SoWal Insider
If he's got lots of disposable income to burn, there's no harm in allowing him to shower you with gifts...if he's running up debt on his credit cards to "spoil" you, that's just plain lunacy on his part. You are under no obligation to "give back accordingly."