Nah, I had the same conversation last year. We came at Thanksgiving, mostly followed the rules and had a good time. I thought since it was such a tough year maybe they had loosened up a little. I'd think about cautioning the comments to skip the diatribes as well. Say what you want but my guess is that there are residents who are very bit as irresponsible as some visitors. I watch the morons come in and trash Athens for every home game too.
As far as the Outer Banks I don't know how much you know about them closing sections of beach at the site of a bird species that is not even indigenous but the locals are up in arms about that.