InletBchDweller said:UPDATE....
cat (no name yet) has eaten and is under the bed. Came out from under the bed, purring, Mr IBD was petting her, she was purring and them BAM!!!!
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cat bit and scratched Mr. IBD needless to say he is PISSED!!! OK get rid of the husband or the cat![]()
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I guess this is going to take time.......http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm824YYUS
ISandcastle said:Bright Eyes the Martini Time cat (picture shown) acted the same way. She had a rough life in her early years. Now she?s the best cat ever. She won?t let us out of her sight, except to go out and sit on our screened porch at the beach where she can safely watch the squirrels and lizards.
Bright Eyes!Sandcastle said:Bright Eyes the Martini Time cat (picture shown) acted the same way. She had a rough life in her early years. Now she?s the best cat ever. She won?t let us out of her sight, except to go out and sit on our screened porch at the beach where she can safely watch the squirrels and lizards.

:clap_1: :clap_1: :clap_1: see IBD...there is hopeolive said:My cat, Seabass, was also a rescue. She had a pretty rough life, too. It took her a while to get used to us. She actually stayed under the bed the first 4 days after we brought her home. Almost eight years later, she is the best cat ever! Very talkative and has even become a social butterfly in her old age!![]()
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katie blue said:In general it will take female cats longer to bond and earn trust than male cats. Giving her her own safe space for several days will help so her guard will drop.
My (very bonded and spoiled) male kitty does the same pet-purr-and-bite routine. I'm assuming that's a play thing. but I don't know, I'm still trying to figure that one out.