Heartbroken...

[Kimmifunn]

My NFL boyfriend LEFT ME A MESSAGE last night at 9 saying he wasn't going to be able to come into the city tonight because:

1. He's sick
2. The MTA strike

Please. I'm over it.

Do we say screw it and cut losses since who knows what really could happen... or do we say "Oh too bad, he's sick, maybe next time?"

I'm thinking the first.

 

[Cil]

Sorry this has happened, Kimmy.::hugs::
I dunno, I cut a lot of slack for boyfriends, and never regretted it. But you can't be a doormat, either. If your guts say dump, then dump. His loss.

 

[kathydwells]

Follow your heart Kimmi...it will lead you the right direction! I am sorry though, because I know you were so looking forward to this. Go have a drink!

 

[Beachlover2]

Kimmi

Where is he - you said he couldn't come into the city - is he on the left coast or is he in the area? If he is close by - he should make a better effort.

 

[Kimmifunn]

Kimmi

Where is he - you said he couldn't come into the city - is he on the left coast or is he in the area? If he is close by - he should make a better effort.

He's in Connecticut visiting family for the holidays! He does live in LA though. All he has to do is hop on the Metro North and he's here.
If he wanted to be here...he would be here.
I have officially dropped all care and concern for the situation. And when that happens, it's hard to get back my attention.
I think it could have totally been fun...but come on. Give me a break!

 

[Jdarg]

Happy Holidays doo doo doo
NFL boy is a turkey dum dum dum
We don't like him now la la la

Kimmi's more funn doo doo doo
Poot on NFL boy dum dum dum
Have more fun in Grayton la la la

 

[peapod1980]

I think it could have totally been fun...but come on. Give me a break!

Well, I think you must be totally over it, because he only got one N! That says it all.

 

[Beachlover2]

Aww Kimmi

Now besides buying you a birthday beer next week - I'll have to buy you a broken heart beer as well. I definitely think he could have tried harder - oh well - you deserve better - Next!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Landlocked]

His loss. Move on. Don't look back

 

[Cap'nCrazy]

Well, I think you must be totally over it, because he only got one N! That says it all.

KF.....On the other hand, he might be really sick and doesn't want to sneeze all over you, and the MTA strike is an issue.

I'm all about recommending that you hedge your bets on this one. My guess is that he is not up in Connecticut with someone else, but maybe tied to family and doesn't want to disappoint them either.

No harm in giving him the benefit of the doubt one more time. I know this is a "guy" perspective, but what the heck, it's just a friendly opinion.

One time when I was single and in the Navy, I was in Philly for training and Gypsea was in Ocean City with her girlfriends for the weekend. I hitchhiked from Philly on Friday night to be with her. I got there about 11PM. She was totally surprised and (fortunately) glad to see me. It was a good move on my part. Not only did we have a great weekend, but we ended up married 2 years later.

Give the guy one more shot. I've got a good feeling it might be worth it.