This is such tragic news. How heartbreaking for your family to lose Janelle so young and so unexpectedly. Please know that you are surrounded by love and sympathy here and that we are all sending our prayers your way.
I am so sorry seagrovelover. My husband's brother (age 39) died this year and I know how something like this can just rip you to pieces. Take all the time you need to heal and recover from the shock. ... I'm sure this week you have been strong for your hubby and so let us be strong for you. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.