Should I get a divorce?

[DD]

I knew you guys would make me laugh about this!

 

[Diane4145]

I would tell him that you'll be going without pay and you'll all only stay, half a week. That way, he'll make up for your lost wages! Actually, you can include a full weekend and have a whole week, anyway. If he doesn't agree to that, he may have another agenda! :nono1:

Well, I wouldn't blame ya if you did. No, j/k. I think I would try to work out a way for you to take time off w/out pay. Is the new job a promotion and pay raise? Maybe that would make up the difference. I can understand your frustration. Good luck!

 

[Diane4145]

Ask your boss, to put themselves in your shoes! What would they want to happen? We know that answer, don't we? Also, tell the boss that they have to allow it, because SOWAL SAYS SO! :clap_1: :clap_1: :clap_1:

Thanks, all! I wouldn't REALLY divorce him, but I like the idea of going somewhere too. I could take the time off without pay, but the demands of the job right now are overwhelming...maybe if I whine enough at work, my boss will take pity...
will keep you posed--maybe I'll get there after all!

 

[Diane4145]

I WISH THAT I HAD A BARF ICON, FOR THIS ONE!

No divorce, especially if you have kids. I mean, you've probably ticked him off big-time somewhere along the way and didn't even know it. "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus." As long he hasn't abused you physically or mentally and hasn't cheated on you (possibly exposing you to some fatal STD), I'd let him know how I feel (don't drag it out - men hate that) and then move on.

 

[Diane4145]

QUOTE: "People treat you the way, that you ALLOW them to treat you"! :nono1:

I got a plan! Tell him to go then you fly or drive there and surprise him or stork him! And if you are thinking about divorce talk to me first! I'll show you my Divorce papers and what to do before you file! I might have been crazy but I wasn't stupid! ;-)
It's Not about what you are willing to do with, It's all about what you are willing to do without....

 

[ktschris]

What does "stork him" mean?

 

[Smiling JOe]

What does "stork him" mean?

You know, Stork him.

 

[ktschris]

Oh. Oh yea...thanks for clearin that up!

 

[seagrovelover]

Thats a new one for me too....."stork him"...is that something you do on birthdays and anniversaries????????

 

[Diane4145]

Put him in touch with a local Realtor, to monopolize all of his time! He'll need to go home, to rest! :clap_1: :clap_1:

I'm usually the navigator too, but he's flying, so I guess I'll have to leave that up to the airline. I'm going to get a new attitude about this whole thing though. Been looking for deals to Vegas.....long weekend. Or, maybe I will go to Fla and surprise him. Maybe I'll just stay home and read and watch chick flicks all week. He said he's gonna look for property, maybe he'll buy some! That would make me most un-mad!