Sometimes it's the simple things...

[Sheila]

I have a very dear friend that is in the final stages of ovarian cancer. We've known each other since 4th grade. For those of you that know me, you know I'm talking a looooooong, long time. I try to visit as much as I can, I call and we chat if she's up to it, and I try and send her cards every week or so. As time has passed, none of the cards I have found no longer seem to fit what is really in my heart.

I bought a new book for my grandchildren last week. Yesterday five year old Camden asked me to sit and read it to him. Here I found the most simple, but perfect words. The name of the book is ",Wherever You Are My Love Will Find You" by Nancy Tillman.

In the green of the grass...in the smell of the sea...in the clouds floating by...at the top of the tree...in the sound crickets make at the end of the day...

"You are loved. You are loved. You are loved," they all say.

I think it is fitting on Valentines Day to remember the most important thing we can all do, is to let those you love know what is in your heart. Flowers and candy are nice. Sharing what is in your heart is the most simple and perfect gift of all.

 

[gardening1970]

What a touching and wise sentiment. Thanks for sharing.

 

[GoodWitch58]

I had a similar experience...my first friend--we had known each other all of our lives--died from breast cancer five years ago...and my feelings were similar to what you've expressed.

One of the pleasant surprises that came from that experience was that I got to know her adult daughter...who was the one who let me know how her Mom was doing when she was undergoing treatment in an out of state clinic...I agree it is the little thing, the everyday conversation, or phone call that seems to be "not enough", but probably is just right. It seemed to be in the case of my friend...she appreciated the connection we made more than the content.

Thanks for the book information--it sounds like a good one.
My thoughts will be with you as you share this time with your friend...I see good energy for both of you.

 

[Lynnie]

That's very sweet, Sheila!!

 

[Franny]

Great for Valentines and perfect for everyday..Sheila

 

[scooterbug44]

I try to send at least one letter/long card a month to someone. It really takes so little time and makes people SO happy.

My college friends and I try to call each other for real conversations whenever we have a long drive or have all that free time between security check and actual plane boarding.

 

[kathydwells]

I have this book. It was one of my most favorite books to read to Jesse when he was little. The words are perfect for you and your friend Sheila. Thinking of you and your friend. I know how much she means to you. Happy Valentines Day. Love you!

 

[Sheila]

Love you too Darlene! It is a sweet book. Odd how just a few simple words can say everything that is in your heart. I can't believe your baby will be graduating soon!

 

[BeachbumAggie]

wow, I love that and will be looking for that book; it brought a tear to my eye and grabbed right to the center of my heart

 

[iwishiwasthere]

Sounds like a wonderful book to add to my collection. Thanks for the lovely words!