91 days doesn't stress me.
Our extended family gets what they want when they want it, so nothing left for Christmas. So we don't trade gifts anymore with them. We'll give our daughter and son-in-law some of the things they need as a young couple, and hubby and I will give each other some token gifts so as not to appear like Scrooge. We can do this online in a day. I make food gifts that can't be bought at the grocery store for friends.
The four of us just enjoy cooking together at Christmas, watching movies, playing games, and relaxing in our jammies. That's our most important present -- being together and having fun.